Creative guilt, Part 2: You said WHAT?!

Wow. You are smart, readers. I posted a piece (blogged a post? wrote into the computer?) about creativity and how working in an uncreative field makes me feel like a failure sometimes, like I’m letting my true creative-self down. The main conclusion of my post, or my suggestion to me and anyone else who feels this pang of guilt, was to reject the idea that your job defines you, and to embrace the creative endeavors you want to embrace.

Decent ideas, sure, but when I read your responses I was just like “Oh…oh DANG!” because it turns out that a whole slew of people had a similar story, and the beautiful part was that everyone had a different perspective, which makes me feel like there is a conversation that needs to happen around this. Therefore, let’s chat. And by chat I do mean on the computer, in the comment boxes below. Let me give you some examples of what I’ve learned from you thus far:

Creative professionals feel creative guilt too.

Shocking, I know! A few brilliant and creative people who actually make a living on their creative know-how said that sometimes they feel guilty for creating work that’s “too commercial” or that by the end of the day, after putting their creative energy into making things for other people, they’re too drained by to think about creating something  personally.

Creativity needs to be welcomed into your life.

One reader suggested that we allow creativity “in the home of your day, make a little room for your creativity to live in. and then go in, visit, have some tea with it, dance around with it, yell as loud as you can out the window with it…” Thanks, poetic reader! I love this idea though, of welcoming creativity into your life and committing to let it stay. Knowing that you have invited this thing in, and to feel the pull that it creates, but to feel it in a peaceful way. Move into my spare bedroom, creativity.

Your job does not define you, but neither do your hobbies.

Someone made this comment and it really struck me. You don't need to be defined by anything. Your creative expression is this practice of curating your life in a way that you want. YES! You express your creativity through your style of clothing, or the way you make your lunch every day. Not huge things, but if you take a step back, it’s amazing. You, just as you are, being yourself, now and always. It’s this amazing work of art, honestly and you're the only one who can make it.

If I could sum up your responses so far, it’s that this whole creative guilt thing is a result of perspective. It’s so relative, and it’s something that we could probably turn into a positive thing instead.

What else? I would love, love, LOVE for you all to see each other’s ideas here. Honestly, the night after I posted the last piece, I was reading emails and comments from people and like, bouncing around the house because I felt like we were all on the same page. And isn’t that the best feeling, really?  So tell me what you do to bring creativity into your life, challenges you find, what you’re working on, etc. TELL ME ALL OF THE THINGS PLEASE.

xoxox

Alexis